"Why Am I Feeling Like This?”. Understanding Perimenopause and Menopause After 40.

You’re in your 40s. One day, you feel like yourself. The next, you’re anxious, irritable, your heart races for no reason, and your sleep goes haywire. Your blood test says “normal”, but you know something’s off. Sound familiar?
Let’s talk, woman to woman. 💬
Many of us were never taught about what really happens during perimenopause, the years before menopause that can start as early as your late 30s or early 40s. And when the changes start happening, they feel confusing, scary, and even lonely.
But here’s the truth: you are not alone and more importantly, you are not “going crazy”. Your body is shifting, and understanding why is the first step to feeling better.
🌡️ What Is Perimenopause?
Perimenopause is the transition phase before menopause. It can last anywhere from 2 to 10 years. During this time, your ovaries gradually produce less estrogen and progesterone, the key hormones that regulate your mood, cycle, and even sleep and digestion.
By the time your period has stopped for 12 months, you’ve officially entered menopause.
🧠 Common Symptoms of Perimenopause (That Doctors Often Miss)
The tricky part? Your bloodwork may still show “normal” levels, especially in the early stages, yet your day-to-day might tell a very different story.
Here’s what many women experience:
- 😰 Anxiety or panic attacks (suddenly, out of the blue)
- 🌙 Trouble sleeping or waking up in the middle of the night
- ❤️ Heart palpitations or feeling your heart race
- 💢 Mood swings or irritability over small things
- 🧠 Brain fog or memory lapses
- ⚖️ Weight gain (especially around the belly)
- 💧 Dryness (skin, eyes, or intimate areas)
- 💔 Low libido or just not feeling like “yourself”
These symptoms can come and go in waves, which makes it even harder to identify the root cause.
🧬 Why Does This Happen?
Hormones, particularly estrogen, play a role in almost every system in your body, including your brain, bones, heart, skin, and gut.
As estrogen starts to fluctuate (and eventually drop), your body becomes more sensitive:
- Your nervous system reacts more quickly, cue anxiety or palpitations
- Your sleep cycles get disrupted
- Your gut health can shift, leading to bloating or bathroom changes
- Your mood and energy dip because estrogen helps regulate serotonin, the “feel good” brain chemical
This is not about vanity, it’s biology.
A study in the Journal of Women’s Health (2022) found that more than 80% of women experience at least one perimenopausal symptom, with many reporting that it impacted their relationships, work, and mental health.
✨ “Perimenopause is a time of change, but it’s also a powerful opportunity to reconnect with your body.” — Dr. Jennifer Gunter, OB/GYN and women’s health advocate
🌿 So What Can You Do to Feel Better?
One powerful approach is supporting your body naturally, especially with plant-based solutions that help your hormones find balance. One such ingredient gaining strong attention is Pueraria Mirifica.
🌸 What is Pueraria Mirifica?
Pueraria Mirifica is a plant native to Thailand, traditionally used for women’s health and graceful aging. It contains phytoestrogens, naturally occurring compounds that mimic the body’s estrogen, but in a gentler, plant-based way.
When estrogen starts declining, phytoestrogens can bind to estrogen receptors and help maintain balance, easing symptoms like:
- Mood swings
- Hot flashes
- Vaginal dryness
- Sleep disruption
- Low energy
🧪 What Does Science Say?
Recent studies back this up:
- A 2022 randomized controlled trial published in Evidence-Based Complementary and Alternative Medicine found that Pueraria Mirifica significantly reduced hot flashes, improved mood, and supported better sleep in women over 45.
- Another 2021 review in Nutrients Journal concluded that phytoestrogens like Pueraria Mirifica have promising benefits in easing perimenopausal symptoms without the side effects of synthetic hormones.
- It has also been linked to bone health, skin elasticity, and cognitive clarity, areas that are often affected post-40.
💜 How Lustre Women’s Plus Supports You Naturally
Here’s where Lustre Women’s Plus comes in.
Our formula blends premium Pueraria Mirifica with collagen, not just for skin, but also for joint support, mood and overall aging wellness. It’s a clean, halal-certified supplement, developed with real women in mind.
Customers have reported:
✅ More balanced mood
✅ Improved sleep
✅ Less “edgy” or anxious feelings
✅ Clearer skin & better energy
✅ A sense of calm, stability, and control again
💬 Real Talk, Sis to Sis
You’re not “too young” for this. You’re not imagining things. And you’re definitely not alone.
Perimenopause is real, under-discussed, and highly treatable. The key is knowledge, empathy and the right support for your body.
If you’re feeling “off” but your labs look normal, listen to your body.
✨ Give your hormones a hug. Rebalance naturally with Lustre Women’s Plus. Let’s get you back to feeling like you again.
🧭 Quick Recap
Symptom |
Cause |
Support |
Anxiety, palpitations |
Estrogen drop affects nervous system |
Pueraria Mirifica |
Mood swings, low energy |
Estrogen/serotonin dip |
Phytoestrogens + B vitamins |
Sleeplessness, fatigue |
Hormone imbalance |
Natural sleep support, magnesium |
Weight & bloating |
Gut hormone shift |
Prebiotics + hormone balance |
🌟 Ready to Take Charge of Your 40s?
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